As a parent, we can influence the direction of our children’s lives by the words we say to them. Our children need to hear positive, encouraging and uplifting words of blessings. You can begin speaking truth anytime. I always say this, there is power over our words, every time we speak a word to them, it will cultivate and digest into their minds. If we keep on telling them that they are a failure, they will eventually fail. So why don’t we start declaring that our child is a blessing, our child will overcome the challenges in their lives.
Friends, start speaking God’s word over your children, your nieces and kahit kanino man, before they go to school, declare blessings instead of a curse. Let me share you an example, kung lagi mong sasabihan ng “bobo” ang anak mo, eventually magiging “bobo” talaga ito, but if you will declare and speak blessing and tell them that they are good or they are smart, that positive declaration will be in their minds and will show up.
And whether we realize it or not, our words will affect our children’s future for either good or evil. We need to speak loving words of approval and acceptance, word that encourage, inspire and motivate our children to reach for new heights. And too often we preach to our children by making a sermon like a Pastor, telling them “bakit ang baba ng grades mo!” “bakit bagsak ka nanaman” “bakit ang bobo bobo mo!” and a lot more!!! Such negative words will cause our children to lose the sense of value nila.
I like what my wife is doing sa mga anak namin, she keeps on telling our children that they are blessed and smart and they are loved by God.She keeps on telling to them na mahal na mahal naming sila. Though most of the time may mga mali sila sa exam, my wife always makes it a point to tell them na okay lang magkamali and not to do the same mistake. She always tell them to look on the brighter side of the exam, na mas madami silang tama kaysa sa mali.
Let us always remember, that if we curse our children by speaking negative words over them, we are cursing their future. Sabi nga ni Spiderman, with great powers, comes with great responsibility and we have a responsibility as a parent over our child to make sure that they are loved, accepted and blessed! Always remember that a blessing is not a blessing unless it is spoken!
Congratulations Mommy, Alyssa, Akeisha and Zeya! You are loved by Mommy and Daddy, You are all blessed!
